Parents and Families

Tips for Parents and Family

As the parent of a first-generation college student, you’re going to experience a lot of firsts. Some will be exciting, some will be challenging — and we’re here to help you through all of them.

The most important thing you can do is support and encourage your student in their growth and their studies. Here are a few ways you can do that:

Ask Open-Ended Questions

Instead of “Did you go to class today?” try, “How are your classes going?” or “What’s been the highlight of your week?” Broader questions often lead to more meaningful conversations.

Listen With an Open Mind

College life can be stressful, even for the most studious students. They’re learning new things, meeting new people, and figuring out how to manage their time around classes and homework. Give your student the space to make their own choices while holding them accountable.

Encourage Involvement

College is more than going to class and doing homework. Encourage your student to join clubs, organizations, or campus activities where they’ll meet new friends, build leadership skills, and grow as individuals.

Understand Student Privacy Laws

Concordia cannot send your student’s grades directly to you because of federal laws that protect your student’s privacy. If you’re curious about their grades, you’ll need to ask your student about them. Remember to listen with an open mind and encourage them, whether they’re excelling or still figuring college life out.